Another strange search that got here

Porn sorry I don’t care

I have no context on why somebody searched for this, so I’m going to take a flying guess…

You’re in a relationship, and your partner found out about your porn addiction. (Maybe you use drugs too.) And that’s your answer to them.

Well, you should care. At the very least, a preoccupation with porn rather than, you know, sexual intercourse with your partner, is kind of stupid. But also, consider why your partner is upset. Do you even know why? It might not be what you think. Maybe he or she was abused as a child. Maybe porn is upsetting to him or her for valid reasons that you, in your need for selfish pleasure, do not understand.

But also, porn has a place within a healthy sexual relationship. At least, it can have a place, if you watch it together and use it to add some fun to your sex life. Losers watch porn alone.

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About Jerome

I am a senior C# developer in Johannesburg, South Africa. I am also a recovering addict, who spent nearly eight years using methamphetamine. I write on my recovery blog about my lessons learned and sometimes give advice to others who have made similar mistakes, often from my viewpoint as an atheist, and I also write some C# programming articles on my programming blog.
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